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'au square' arrive
la version francaise aussi...
en attendant retrouver la version anglaise sur le site de
catherine. 'voir sommaire/index)
pour vous accrocher... (1998!)
c'est l'histore de jeunes femmes qui se rencontrent au square..
l'une s'approche de l'autre...
catastrophée..: oh votre petite miryam va a l'ecole ?
et comment faites vous pour la
socialisation???.
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allez (2001!) je ne resiste pas a vous livrer la version anglaise d'autant
plus que nous 'avons joué en scenettes lors de la rencontre d'ecouen d'hiver
5761-2001 et que brigitte en a fait une version pour le bulletin des enfants
d'ab d'apres cette rencontre...
il y a aussi des sites consacrés a ce passionnant probleme tant posé par.. les adeptes de la normopathie..
certains sont des sites tres serieux, avec plein de references et d'etudes ... d'autres plus adaptés au niveau de la question... comme celui qui s'intitule 'la sociali... une raison de plus pour ne pas scolariser...'..----------
What ABOUT socialization?
Two women meet at a playground, where their children are
swinging and playing ball. The women are sitting on a bench watching. Eventually,
they begin to talk.
W1: Hi. My name is Maggie. My kids are the three in red
shirts helps me keep track of them.
W2: (Smiles) I'm Terri. Mine are in the pink and yellow
shirts. Do you come here a lot?
W1: Usually two or three times a week, after we go to
the library.
W2: Wow. Where do you find the time?
W1: We un school, so we do it during the day most of
the time.
W2: Some of my neighbors un school, but I send my kids
to public school.
W1: How do you do it?
W2: It's not easy. I go to all the PTO meetings and work
with the kids every day after school and stay real involved.
W1: But what about socialization? Aren't you worried about
them being cooped up all day with kids their own ages, never getting the opportunity
for natural relationships?
W2: Well, yes. But I work hard to balance that. They have
some friends who're home schooled, and we visit their grandparents almost every
month.
W1: Sounds like you're a very dedicated mom. But don't
you worry about all the opportunities they're missing out on? I mean they're
so isolated from real life -- how will they know what the world is like -- what
people do to make a living -- how to get along with all different kinds of people?
W2: Oh, we discussed that at PTO, and we started a fund
to bring real people into the classrooms. Last month, we had a policeman and
a doctor come in to talk to every class. And next month, we're having a woman
from Japan and a man from Kenya come to speak.
W1: Oh, we met a man from Japan in the grocery store the
other week, and he got to talking about his childhood in Tokyo. My kids were
absolutely fascinated. We invited him to dinner and got to meet his wife and
their three children.
W2: That's nice. Hmm. Maybe we should plan some Japanese
food for the lunchroom on Multicultural Day.
W1: Maybe your Japanese guest could eat with the children.
W2: Oh, no. She's on a very tight schedule. She has two
other schools to visit that day. It's a system-wide thing we're doing.
W1: Oh, I'm sorry. Well, maybe you'll meet someone interesting
in the grocery store sometime and you'll end up having them over for dinner.
W2: I don't think so. I never talk to people in the store
--certainly not people who might not even speak my language. What if that Japanese
man hadn't spoken English?
W1: To tell you the truth, I never had time to think about
it. Before I even saw him, my six-year-old had asked him what he was going to
do with all the oranges he was buying.
W2: Your child talks to strangers?
W1: I was right there with him. He knows that as long
as he's with me, he can talk to anyone he wishes.
W2: But you're developing dangerous habits in him. My
children never talk to strangers.
W1: Not even when they're with you?
W2: They're never with me, except at home after school.
So you see why it's so important for them to understand that talking to strangers
is a big no-no.
W1: Yes, I do. But if they were with you, they could get
to meet interesting people and still be safe. They'd get a taste of the real
world, in real settings. They'd also get a real feel for how to tell when a
situation is dangerous or suspicious.
W2: They'll get that in the third and fifth grades in
their health courses.
W1: Well, I can tell you're a very caring mom. Let me
give you my number--if you ever want to talk, give me a call. It was good to
meet you.
(Author unknown) ... mais nous l'avons extrait de la premiere
version du site de catherine....
MIRACLE de la technique moderne ce matin dans notre bal..la version francaise de brigitte (merci!)...
qques retouches et mise en page sommaire et hop... vous pouvez maintenant le lire dans la langue (aussi retouchée...) de molière...
voici
square-fr.htm
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